The year 2025 has a lot of innovations in store – even in the bedroom. femtasy reveals the most exciting and surprising trends. And one thing is certain: it has never been so hot!
In 2025, desire and intimacy will be shaped by innovation, self-determination and exciting new approaches. From feminist perspectives to intense sensuality – the sex trends of the coming year offer inspiring and unusual impulses. We reveal that we were thrilled between the sheets in 2025.
The sex trends of 2025
Nipple orgasm
The nipple orgasm, also known as breast orgasm, is triggered exclusively by stimulation of the nipples. The nerve endings in the nipples stimulate the brain in a similar way to the clitoris, while oxytocin and prolactin increase pleasure and sensitivity. Although only around 20% of women have experienced this climax, more and more are discovering this intense trend.
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For anyone who wants to explore the topic of nipple orgasms in more depth, the use of nipple clamps can be a real highlight. For anyone who prefers to take things slowly, an intensive breast massage is the perfect way to start. There are no limits to creativity here! There are many different ways to stimulate the nipples: e.g. B. with the fingers, tongue and teeth to toys to more unusual means such as ice cubes.
Voyeurism
According to a Canadian study, approximately 40% of women prefer watching other people during sex. And this trend can also be clearly seen in femtasy's results: 45% of voyeuristic audios were heard compared to the previous year.
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If you find the idea of watching one or more people having sex hot, you can try out a voyeuristic role play with your sexual partner. Here one person can masturbate while the other “secretly” watches. Very important in all voyeuristic games: consent is key!
Pillow riding
In 2024, approximately 19% of Gen Z respondents to an internal study said their favorite way to masturbate was pillow riding. A trend that sparked this year – and will really explode in 2025!
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If you want to try pillow riding, you can look forward to a playful and sensual type of masturbation. This technique allows you to rediscover your own body and take control of intensity and rhythm. To start with, a soft pillow or a riding pillow specifically designed for masturbation that can be easily positioned is suitable. And now? Take the reins firmly in your hand and ride off! From gentle rocking to rhythmic, fast movements – you've definitely never experienced pleasure like this before!
Soft dome
Dominance meets tenderness: That's exactly what a softdom is all about. The interplay of pleasure and control originally comes from BDSM, but the gentler, dominant trend has also entered the mainstream. Overall, 120% more softdom audios were heard on femtasy in 2024.
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For those who are interested in the topic of softdom, edging is a must-try! The orgasm is deliberately delayed in order to increase arousal. You can do this on your own by taking conscious breaks as soon as you get close to climax. Or of course as a couple, with one person taking control of the other's orgasm. Here too, it's best to try out what's most fun: whether alone, as a couple, with toys or without… One thing is certain, however: with edging the climax becomes more and more intense.
Breath play
Breathplay is the sensual play with what is vital to us as humans: breath. The balance between control and letting go enables an intense experience that sharpens the senses and expands perception. Demand for the game with risk and pleasure has increased by 25% at femtasy this year.
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For those who have been immediately drawn to Breathplay, Choking could be a perfect match! You should be aware beforehand that choking is an intensive game in which safety and mutual consent have top priority. Gagging involves touching or lightly squeezing the throat to increase pleasure. Only the side of the neck should be stimulated to create a feeling of control without endangering breathing. With mindfulness, mutual trust and lots of communication, choking can become an exciting part of your game.
